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 2 Comments - Add comment | Back to Emotional baggage Written on 25-Apr-2009 by livingbelle
I think there are lots of layers to how you are feeling at the moment.  From some of the things you say it looks like your focusing on ALL the negative things that happen and not even noticing any positives, of which I am sure you have experienced many.  You feel under valued and disregarded at home and in your relationship.  Is this because  your hopes, dreams and expectations are not being met or are too high?  You need to take some responsibility in matters however, no one can make you happy that has to come from within.  All relationships need careful negotiation and acceptance, although you should not accept abuse mental, emotional or physical.  If things have changed since your move to the point of being unbearable you will will need to find the strength, energy and courage to turn things around.  Do not rush into more of the same and make things chaotic.  Think about where you want to go, and how your going to get there.  And be careful what you wish for.
 
Best wishes
 Belle
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  • written on 09-Sep-2009

    valentina says:

    I wish that were that easy as we discuss it. We do understand many things with our heads, but when it comes to feelings in a certain situation, we cannot always find the right decision and act in a wrong way. Yesterday I watched a documentary "Learning loving yourself" ( http://torrents.rapid4me.com ) about the problem discussed here. Unfortunately no medicine has found yet...

  • written on 28-Oct-2009

    belle says:

    It is very true that emotions can, and will often over rule common sense and rational behaviour, but self awareness and self respect can help us make the right decisions sometimes.

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